Men's Tantra Weekend Retreat in Quepos, Costa Rica — 4 Days of Connection and Inner Work

Casa Kama sits on Finca Gloriana, a property in Quepos on Costa Rica's central Pacific coast. The retreat takes place in the covered outdoor studio, where most sessions unfold. There's a pool, a fire pit used for evening stargazing, and a lush garden setting. The property is clothing-optional, and all bathrooms and showers are shared. You're a five-minute drive from Quepos La Managua Airport (XQP), though most international guests fly into San Jose (SJO) and connect on a Sansa or Green Airways domestic flight.

The four-day structure is tight and deliberately progressive. Day one is arrival at 4pm, check-in, dinner, introductions and an icebreaker exercise. Day two moves into tantra foundations: an inner workout, connection exercises, and a temple event in the evening. Day three repeats the inner workout and connection exercises but adds inner child work, plus another temple event. Day four closes with a final inner workout and goodbyes. A beach visit and a shopping trip to the plaza in Quepos are included in the programme.

DaddyGuru's selling point is that he holds space specifically for queer men. He openly states that many mainstream tantra centres and schools fail to recognise queer journeys, particularly when triggers come up, and don't treat their boundaries as serious. He's openly out since 1984, has four decades of LGBTQ+ activism behind him, and is a survivor of physical and sexual abuse, childhood abandonment, and is a recovering codependent. That lived experience is central to how he runs the room.

What separates this from a general wellness retreat is the men-only, clothing-optional container. The work is intimate by design — vulnerability, surrender, dissolving ego, intimacy practices and group sharing. It's not a silent meditation week or a yoga holiday. Expect to talk, to be witnessed, and to do exercises that ask you to drop your guard. If that's not what you want, this isn't the right booking.

What's included

- Accommodation at Casa Kama (shared or private, depending on room booked) - Breakfast and dinner daily - Snacks, water, coffee and tea - All programme sessions: inner workouts, connection exercises, temple events - Inner child work sessions - Beach visit - Plaza shopping excursion in Quepos - Complimentary airport transfers from Quepos La Managua Airport (XQP) - Clothing-optional property access - Pool and fire pit access

What's not included

- International flights - Domestic connecting flight from San Jose (SJO) to Quepos (XQP) - Travel insurance - Personal expenses - Reiki treatments (available on site, extra cost) - Massage treatments (available on site, extra cost) - Optional upgrades and extras - Visa fees (check your country's requirements)