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Vietnam · 2 days · From EUR 6640
You arrive on the first morning and get straight into it. A typical day starts around 9:30 with a couple session — not a long talk, but a guided check-in where you're both asked to notice what's happening in your bodies before you say anything. From there the facilitator moves you into somatic work: breath practices, guided attunement, and body-level exercises to re-pattern the nervous system. There's a movement and meditation block most days, partly to settle you and partly to prepare for the deeper intimacy work. You break for lunch in town around 1pm, then finish by 2:30pm. The second day follows a similar rhythm but moves toward the closing rite — a heart-anchored ceremony to close out what you've opened.
What separates this from couples counselling is the body-first approach. The facilitator's stated position is that most therapy is talk-only and 'chit-chats around the issue,' while this work goes into the nervous system, the heart and the body before it brings in the mind, sexuality and soul. In practice that means less time explaining your childhood and more time doing practices that shift how you feel in each other's presence. You'll leave with a 'Sacred Union Blueprint' — a co-created map for repairing and sustaining the relationship — and a set of nervous-system tools you can keep using at home.
The facilitator is an intimacy coach who goes by the title 'Intimacy Alchemist' and is based in Bozeman, Montana. They run a small series of two-day couple intensives in Da Nang covering specific situations: rupture and repair, after an affair, head-to-heart, couples trauma threshold, and empty-nest transitions. This one is positioned as the elite, discreet, high-powered version — the format and the depth are the same, but the framing is for couples who want privacy and results without group work. The facilitator is confirmed before your stay, and airport transfers are included, with the facilitator picking you up from Da Nang International Airport (DAD).
Da Nang itself is a coastal city with ocean and mountain views, a strong café and restaurant scene, and beaches within easy reach of downtown. The accommodation is centrally located, so you can walk to restaurants, cafés and the beach in the afternoons after sessions finish at 2:30pm. If you want to extend the trip, the facilitator can help you sort out extra days or upgrades. This isn't a beach-resort yoga package — the draw is the two days of focused work, and the rest of the time is yours.
- 2-day facilitated relationship intensive (four half-day sessions) - Accommodation in a double-occupancy room with queen-size bed - En-suite bathroom, desk, mini-fridge, large-screen TV - Wi-Fi and air conditioning - Breakfast - Water, tea, coffee, and snacks during sessions - Airport transfers to and from Da Nang International Airport (DAD) - All retreat materials and practices
- Flights to and from Da Nang - Lunch in town (from around
5) - Dinner - Travel insurance - Personal expenses - Optional upgrades and extras